Stuck in a situationship and too scared to ask "what are we?" This episode breaks down the define the relationship (DTR) conversation everyone avoids, why the fear of seeming "too much" or "desperate" keeps you trapped in months of confusion, and how to finally get clarity on whether someone actually wants a relationship with you. If you've been going with the flow, playing it cool, and waiting for them to choose you, this is your sign to stop self-abandoning and take control of your dating life.